The primary objective here is to allow some later changes to be cleaner. Mostly this involves renaming things and moving a few things around.
* CrossInterpreterData -> XIData
* crossinterpdatafunc -> xidatafunc
* split out pycore_crossinterp_data_registry.h
* add _PyXIData_lookup_t
This PR adds the ability to enable the GIL if it was disabled at
interpreter startup, and modifies the multi-phase module initialization
path to enable the GIL when loading a module, unless that module's spec
includes a slot indicating it can run safely without the GIL.
PEP 703 called the constant for the slot `Py_mod_gil_not_used`; I went
with `Py_MOD_GIL_NOT_USED` for consistency with gh-104148.
A warning will be issued up to once per interpreter for the first
GIL-using module that is loaded. If `-v` is given, a shorter message
will be printed to stderr every time a GIL-using module is loaded
(including the first one that issues a warning).